Individualized Sessions for Couples

Sex in the context of a romantic relationship can foster intimacy, closeness, and growth for both individuals and for the relationship they are creating together. Good sex also feels amazing, releases stress, and increases connection. It’s an important part of the bond for a lot of couples, and yet it can be challenging to maintain sexual connection, particularly over the long term.

If your relationship is good, but the sex isn’t (either isn’t good or simply isn’t happening), I’d love to help! In a session with you and your partner, I will listen to your story and your struggles, and I’ll help to facilitate connection and collaboration between the two of you so that you can both access more intimacy and pleasure in your relationship. This is not counseling or therapy. It is intentional time with an expert in the field of sexuality, with a focus on pleasure, to expand your knowledge in the sexual realm. I find that couples make progress in 3-6 sessions and sometimes choose to continue for more in order to go deeper or address different issues.

Schedule a free half-hour initial consult with me via Zoom to test the waters.

Together we can work on:

  • Creating more ease and pleasure when one partner wants sex more often than the other does

  • Reigniting the spark and rediscovering play and pleasure in a long-term relationship

  • Having the sex you want, and bringing awareness to who the sex is for

  • Strengthening communication before, during, and after sex

  • Learning new ways to feel more pleasure through partnered sex

  • Gaining confidence in pleasuring one another

  • Experimenting with power exchange, the pain-pleasure connection, and other aspects of kink

  • Considering monogamy, polyamory, and other relationship structures

  • Seeking balance of autonomy and freedom with togetherness and trust

  • Moving through changes in your sexual desire and/or function because of illness, menopause, etc.

Schedule a free half-hour initial consult with me via Zoom to test the waters.